Can I change?
If I really want
to.
Is it hard to change myself and easier to just stay where I
am?
Certainly! The status quo is always more
comfortable. I may not like this part of
me, but I know it, and I haven’t felt the need to change in the past.
Does my personal history tell me that it’s difficult for me to
change?
To a certain extent.
Can I overcome the tendency to dwell on my past to justify
not changing?
Yes, but it will
probably be really challenging.
I keep telling myself that I can’t change because I haven’t
completely changed in the past.
Do I want to change
now?
I think so, but the thought scares me.
So am I destined to
fail in the end?
No. I can’t believe
that.
If I’m not destined to
fail, then I must have the ability to walk through my fears, to overcome my
past, and change, and become, in the present.
But it’s comfortable right now even though I want to change.
So how badly do I want
to change? I will have to want it badly
in order to overcome the challenges that will surely come.
So I need to hold fast to my commitment in those dark times?
Yes.
What happens if I temporarily lose sight of my commitment?
I may have to reach
out to people I trust to help me in those times. I may have to reach out to
God.
Yes, that’s right.
I have made changes in
other aspects of my life and have proven my mettle in those areas, so why can’t
I begin the process of making this change now?
I can.
But I am concerned
that if I attempt to make this important change in my life, those around me
might bring up the past and cling to it, and justify their belief that I can’t
change because I haven’t changed in the past.
That’s true, and it might happen.
But just because
people around me hold to the past to justify their beliefs and actions toward
me does not mean that I have to believe I can’t change.
That’s right.
I can change, but the
change has to come from deep within me, and must be for myself and not for
anybody else.
True, also.
I know what I want and
know my thoughts and intentions. I need
to accept the things I cannot change, usually others’ opinions, and have the
courage to change what I can, what I have control over; like the Serenity
Prayer.
I think I can change.
Here I go….
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