My Boys!

A great thing happened today!  My two boys were in my house at the same time, smiling, joking, being--you know, brothers!  Considering their history, this was indeed a momentous occasion.  They got together a few days ago, but this was in my home with my wife.  I was all smiles.

Robert (BJ) and Douglas

Specialist Douglas Davis, on leave from his Army duties for about 12 days before heading off to his posting in Hawaii, sought to spend time with his older brother.  Robert Davis (BJ), away from the Beacon House, his rehab facility, and with sobriety approaching 3 1/2 years, sought to spend time with his younger brother.

Both are nearly the same height (BJ is just a tiny bit taller), both have short hair, both are good looking (in my opinion), and both are grateful for the relationship they now have with one another.  They both cooked a delicious Sunday dinner for my wife and me.

What different and amazing journeys these boys are on.  BJ is on his path to becoming a Certified Alcohol and Drug Rehab Counselor and may yet graduate from college.  Douglas graduated from Cal State Long Beach and may or may not make the Army his career; much depends on what happens in the next few months. Neither has any idea what their situations will be in say five years from now.  BJ will be 35 and Doug 32. I think that's okay with both of them, though.  

What is known is that they will always be my boys.  I am extremely proud of them for the men that they are now, and the men they are becoming.  I am grateful for them, and pray that I may see them for many more years to come.