As 2015 comes to a close, I wanted to review this eventful year. It had many memorable events and people, and since this is a blog/journal of my life, it seems appropriate to now look back with words and some pictures:
PASS & FAIL
In the early part of 2015, my son BJ received his Certification as a Certified Addiction Treatment Counselor He had taken his test in 2015, having completed a four semester program at California State University, Dominguez Hills. I am very proud that he is using this certification to legitimately work at and for The Beacon House, the rehab where he finally overcame his drug addiction. He and I both would say that it is never fully beaten, but I am proud of his work and thankful to God.
I, on the other hand, failed my first attempt to take the first of two licensing exams to become a legitimate, licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT). I was unable to try to retake it in the rest of 2015, but will take it in January 2016.
A TRIP TO THE DESERT
In the spring of the year, we decided to visit the area to the east of Los Angeles. Using a little residence as a base in Morongo Valley, we explored Joshua Tree National Park and all of its wonders--which are many. We spent more time in the Morongo Valley and then returned for a visit of Palm Springs. It was a great opportunity to take pictures, and I took many, one of which is above.
THE BIG CANADIAN ROAD TRIP
Lake Moraine, pictured above, was on my bucket list. We decided to see people and places on what ended up to be a 4600+ mile loop north in Northern California (we saw Emily, Adam, the grandkids, as well as my cousin Scott), Seattle (we saw Rebecca & Isaac), the North Cascades National Park eastern British Columbia, Banff National Park (home to the Lake above as well as other beauties), Glacier National Park in Montana, and Utah (we saw extended family). It was a 16 day trip and I am so glad we took it! We saw some of the most scenery I have ever witnessed, and I was able to photograph some of it. It spawned a coffee table book of pictures I have taken so far.
ANN'S DREAM CAR
Ann had a dream about driving a blue 2005 S-Type Jaguar, having downloaded a picture of one on her computer as a vehicle she would like to own some day. I took that as a challenge. Our son Doug needed a car, and so we decided to sell it to him and to buy a blur Jag. Although it has experienced some mechanical challenges (what did we expect?), Ann loves it and it is really a luxurious, lovely car!
THE JOHNSON MOVE TO NORTHERN CAL
In June of 2015, Adam and Emily loaded the kids into their van and drove across country from New Jersey to begin a new life in the Golden State. We helped them locate a sutiable area, helped them move in, and visited for a number of reasons five times between June and the end of 2015. By the way, the picture of Charlie above is at the Wonderland Park in Oakland, visited by Walt Disney prior to building and opening Disneyland in Southern California. This little urban park reportedly served as inspiration for what would become the Happiest Place on Earth!
LIFESTAR CONVENTION
This is an annual event held in Salt Lake City. I thought that it was important to attend to be able to learn more about the Lifestar program with sexually addicted clients. It was also important to interact socially with my peers in counseling, and I enjoyed haging out and being with them there. A couple of our activities were to see a concert of Big Bad Voodoo Daddy in Park City and to sight see Bridal Veil Falls up Provo Canyon, Heber Valley, and Park City again. Nice.
A VISIT BY THE PAXMANS
Rick and Amy, my borther and sister-in-laws, held a family reunion at the beach in Oceanside. It was nice to spend time talking with them, walking to the pier, eating, and just hanging out. I wish we lived closer and could have more time with the crew. All of the children were there except Suzy, and it was a chance to see Rick and Amy's new grandchild. It was great to see Amy who continues to suffer from a bunch of physical ailments.
WATCHING THE JOHNSON KIDS
Emily and Adam were able to go on a company-paid trip for a week to Rome! We gladly obliged to watch the kids here in Southern California while they had a wonderful time there. BJ wanted to spend time with the kids, and they really enjoyed spending time with him. At a nearby park, he was able to help them have the thrill of learning how to rock climb, as shown by Elizabeth above. Always physically draining, we enjoy spending time with these wonderful kids!
TRISH MORTIMER DEATH
Walking to and from the grave site at Forest Lawn Hollywood Hills was this lovely, tender sculpture. It reminded me of the tenderness of Trish, a woman from our church congregation to whom Ann and I had been assinged to home teach along with her husband, Bob. This vibrant, dancing, cat and dog-loving woman contracted cancer which eventually led to her death and which caused her to lose a lot of weight. Ann and I remarked that she physically looked like she belonged in a concentration camp, and it was a blessing from Above that she was finally taken.
POLICY CHANGE
Much to my surprise, the Church decided to institute policy changes regarding practicing homosexuals and their children. These changes listed above greatly saddened me and Ann. While we continue to support and sustain Church leaders on a local and general basis, we are saddened, confused, and on some level, upset and even angry at what has happened. We continue to nurture our connection with Heavenly Father and His Son, and trust that we will have understanding of this change, and hope that He will make things right. It is also a chance for us to be more loving, kind and repsectful to His children, no matter their sexual orientation.
CHRISTMAS TRIP TO SEE THE JOHNSONS
The Johnsons came to Southern California for Thanksgiving, and we went north to the Bay Area for Christmas. It was wonderful to see Christmas through the eyes of children, to feel of their excitement and energy. This gave us another opportunity to spend time with them, Adam and Emily, and, on the day after Christmas, to make a trip to the City, San Francisco. It was a great way to end 2015!